Then, start setting some new, clearer goals. In this case, the goal is to attempt to cut down on the number of negative self-talk speeches. Just like you have goals to shoot certain scores, you need to apply this same attitude with correcting this debilitating self-talk.

Once you have been able to calmly re-examine your round and your outbursts of negativity, imagine yourself reacting to those circumstances in a different way and replacing those negative statements with positive thoughts. Learn to laugh with yourself and say, "I can do this shot," and other such positive feedback to reinforce your self-worth.

With each round, make a conscious choice to reduce the negativity and try to remain positive - remember it's only a game. With some diligent practice and commitment, you're on your way to erasing bad thoughts about your golf game.

Now that we’ve covered what should be going on in your head, let’s take a moment to examine each of the most important golf shots.

DRIVING THE BALL

While driving the golf ball might seem like a simple process, it really isn’t.  Some seasoned golfers just look at driving the ball as a simple process.  “Grip it and rip it” is a common phrase you can hear on many tee boxes.  However, there are some things you can do to get more distance on your drives.

First and foremost, you need to be relaxed when you begin addressing the ball.  You must be loose before pulling back the club.  Do not tighten up over the golf ball.  It is important to waggle the club back and forth a few times in order to create some flow to start the golf swing.  This action will promote proper rhythm and tempo.

Teeing the ball higher will aid in hitting the ball farther.  By teeing the ball higher, it will help achieve better launch angle and reduce backspin at impact.  This will allow the ball to be hit on the up-swing - producing more carry and distance.

One of the most valuable pieces of advice this recreational golfer ever received was to look at the back of the ball.  It’s easy to take